Well, this is it

“Stitched Together With Good Intentions”

I do??

Monday, May 4, 2009 || 2:02 PM

So today at lunch I was sitting with my sister eating mac n' cheese once again and randomly she just said, "I want to get married". For some reason this topic keeps coming up around me. Even though my sister is only 24, she feels like she should be married and have kids by now. At school one day me and my friends were talking, and two of my friends have already chosen their wedding song, and planned out their wedding already!! When I was asking them about it they asked me, "Haven't you ever chosen your wedding song or planned your wedding yet?", when I said no they looked at me like I was some kind of alien baby. But I don't really see what the big rush is, it's honestly the last thing on my mind to be planning out my wedding. I'm only 18. And I don't think it's really fair for the guy if you've already planned everything. Even though there's that whole thing where a lot of guys don't like planning weddings, but I think they should as least have a say in it, it's their day too. While we were on the topic of weddings one of my friends told us that her and her boyfriend were planning to get married after we graduate. Which is in only three years. Apparently they were going to move to Vancouver and she gave him an ultimatum. Either he marry her and go to Vancouver or she stays here. I'm sure it sounded better than that when they talked, but I don't think I would want to make the decision that way. I kinda want the whole proposal thing, where the guy freaks out about how he's going to propose and he goes out to choose the ring that he thinks suits his girl. And when he finally proposes the girl is all like, "omgomgomgomgomg!! yes!". Yea, I want that moment. I think people should live more in the moment instead of pre-planning everything, just let things happen when it's supposed to and you'll cross that bridge when you get to it.

Live for the moments you can't put into words.

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